Dealing with Obstacles II
Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2018 2:18 pm
And yet again, yesterday (17/7/2018) was too much of a drama...
[IN ORDER NOT TO CAUSE CONFUSION]
Friend 1 = My friend whose joke was directed to him (Green)
Friend 2 = The "friend" of ours who directed the joke to Friend 1 (Red)
The same guy who was our friend (he apologized a month ago after realizing his mistake) was joking around with one of my friends' pictures by exposing him on Instagram, pretending that the account he made was a "private account" to Friend 1's main account.
He was making plans to make me behave like I thought Friend 1 made a private account, but when I realized what Friend 2 was doing to Friend 1, I stopped pretending instantly and just told Friend 1 that Friend 2 pretended to act like you and just exposed you to the whole population who have Instagram (Friend 2 told me to speak the truth to Friend 1, and I definitely did not like Friend 2's plans) by showing modified pictures of him. Friend 2 was even typing awfully explicit captions on each picture.
Friend 1 had to argue with Friend 2 on the phone, but then Friend 1's brother decided to take place of Friend 1 and literally cussed at him (the brother was older than the three of us, he's nice to his brother and me), shouted at him, and then Friend 2 did the same and ended the call without saying anything else.
Friend 2 told me everything, and Friend 1 told me to let Friend 2 stop talking to him because their friendship ended.
I went to the club with Friend 1 (we trust each other, and we even called each other on the phone after the argument), and then Friend 2 decided to call me to talk about the mistakes Friend 1 made, and I told him the truth:
"Your jokes are what's making us stay away from you, (name), you have to change your behavior or it's over."
Friend 2 was hesitant, and was talking about who was wrong, Friend 1 or himself (Friend 2).
I honestly told him that this was "your mistake, (name), you were responsible for his frustration."
He ended the call by saying "Thank you..."
After five minutes, Friend 2 came back with the call, saying everything that was false:
"I helped you gain friends, that even one of mine was saying bad things about you, and I protected you." and stuff like that.
I took revenge (as he ended the call abruptly), by shouting at him with all my might and said:
"You helped me?!?! You did nothing but to make fun of me and (Friend 1's name)! This was your gigantic mistake of being friends with me! You were rather a scumbag! You did nothing but to joke about my pictures, disrespecting me, my mother, my privacy! You even called me with such a word I cannot accept it as a joke! And if you stayed like this, you're losing friends! And since you convinced yourself to joke with us like this, we've had enough with you! And you're staying with this awful behavior and I am NOT talking to you anymore, because your jokes and exactly you are immature as hell! Assalamu Alaykom! (It means Peace be upon you)"
Friend 2 never even called again after that argument.
And as I said, being ruthless and disrespectful helps you lose friends, and that should teach him a lesson of respecting everyone.
In fact, most of Friend 1 and my friends actually called him bad names behind his back, since he was the first person to call us awful behind Friend 1 and my backs.
I seriously had enough with this person, and I've had enough being friends with him for six months and all he did was insulting me.
I still am the same human who deals with life, and accepts that sadness has to come, because you cannot stay happy at all times.
I am sorry for all of this drama... it was on my head and I was pretty tired with the behavior of Friend 2 that I had to take it away from my brain.
[IN ORDER NOT TO CAUSE CONFUSION]
Friend 1 = My friend whose joke was directed to him (Green)
Friend 2 = The "friend" of ours who directed the joke to Friend 1 (Red)
The same guy who was our friend (he apologized a month ago after realizing his mistake) was joking around with one of my friends' pictures by exposing him on Instagram, pretending that the account he made was a "private account" to Friend 1's main account.
He was making plans to make me behave like I thought Friend 1 made a private account, but when I realized what Friend 2 was doing to Friend 1, I stopped pretending instantly and just told Friend 1 that Friend 2 pretended to act like you and just exposed you to the whole population who have Instagram (Friend 2 told me to speak the truth to Friend 1, and I definitely did not like Friend 2's plans) by showing modified pictures of him. Friend 2 was even typing awfully explicit captions on each picture.
Off Topic
Friend 1 was friends with Friend 2 for six years, protecting him from anyone who tried to talk behind his back. Unfortunately Friend 1 had to stay silent from Friend 2's jokes (which they aren't jokes, they're insults on the person, making fun of everything). But Friend 1, after his witness from the last "joke" Friend 2 made, took revenge.
Besides, Friend 2 made fun of the way I walk, talk, joke... He made fun of everything, and I've had enough ever since I knew him for only six months. I have given chances and stayed silent, but I guess I'm NOT gonna give anymore chances to this guy since he doesn't respect everyone he sees.
Besides, Friend 2 made fun of the way I walk, talk, joke... He made fun of everything, and I've had enough ever since I knew him for only six months. I have given chances and stayed silent, but I guess I'm NOT gonna give anymore chances to this guy since he doesn't respect everyone he sees.
Friend 1 had to argue with Friend 2 on the phone, but then Friend 1's brother decided to take place of Friend 1 and literally cussed at him (the brother was older than the three of us, he's nice to his brother and me), shouted at him, and then Friend 2 did the same and ended the call without saying anything else.
Friend 2 told me everything, and Friend 1 told me to let Friend 2 stop talking to him because their friendship ended.
I went to the club with Friend 1 (we trust each other, and we even called each other on the phone after the argument), and then Friend 2 decided to call me to talk about the mistakes Friend 1 made, and I told him the truth:
"Your jokes are what's making us stay away from you, (name), you have to change your behavior or it's over."
Friend 2 was hesitant, and was talking about who was wrong, Friend 1 or himself (Friend 2).
I honestly told him that this was "your mistake, (name), you were responsible for his frustration."
He ended the call by saying "Thank you..."
After five minutes, Friend 2 came back with the call, saying everything that was false:
"I helped you gain friends, that even one of mine was saying bad things about you, and I protected you." and stuff like that.
I took revenge (as he ended the call abruptly), by shouting at him with all my might and said:
"You helped me?!?! You did nothing but to make fun of me and (Friend 1's name)! This was your gigantic mistake of being friends with me! You were rather a scumbag! You did nothing but to joke about my pictures, disrespecting me, my mother, my privacy! You even called me with such a word I cannot accept it as a joke! And if you stayed like this, you're losing friends! And since you convinced yourself to joke with us like this, we've had enough with you! And you're staying with this awful behavior and I am NOT talking to you anymore, because your jokes and exactly you are immature as hell! Assalamu Alaykom! (It means Peace be upon you)"
Friend 2 never even called again after that argument.
And as I said, being ruthless and disrespectful helps you lose friends, and that should teach him a lesson of respecting everyone.
In fact, most of Friend 1 and my friends actually called him bad names behind his back, since he was the first person to call us awful behind Friend 1 and my backs.
I seriously had enough with this person, and I've had enough being friends with him for six months and all he did was insulting me.
I still am the same human who deals with life, and accepts that sadness has to come, because you cannot stay happy at all times.
I am sorry for all of this drama... it was on my head and I was pretty tired with the behavior of Friend 2 that I had to take it away from my brain.